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Month: August 2025

COMPOSITING AMERICANS

Like many, I have struggled to understand why so many Americans are OK with the destruction of its institutions and our relationships with one another.

Back in the 1990s I read a book called Bowling Alone, a first significant look at how Americans were losing stable communities. “There’s no place like home,” had become a dozen places in the average lifetime. Moving constantly, and with the tube and video games occupying their time, neighborhoods, local schools and churches were taking a big hit. Parent PTA membership dropped by 60%, and even though people still bowled, team bowling dropped by 60%. Thus, the name of the book.

The number of people saying they have no close friends has quadrupled since 1990. You, or at least one person on your block, reports feeling lonely every day and thus suicides have become one of the nation’s leading causes of death, increasing 37% since 2000.

The really bad news doesn’t come until about 2010 when “Smart Phones” take off and social isolation becomes a pandemic. Most of the normal human experience that has existed through the Millenia is taken away: time outside, time with friends, time to sleep and exercise – all going, going and about to be gone.

Five hours a day is the average time spent on “Smart Phones” by young adults and teens. With over 40% of teens saying they are on their phones several times a day and the other 50% saying they are on it constantly, pushing out all healthy interactive activity – no touching, seeing, smelling, hearing, feeling or learning, just addiction to that little machine in their hands.

This addiction is not accidental but planned and intended to stimulate action and reward with the hoped for responses like little infusions of dopamine hooking each user on things logarithms already know they will enjoy or agree with.

 No contrary stimulus required, needed, or wanted. Much like training a dog, with each desired response give a little treat, do it again, and again and you end up with the behavior you want. We all end up bowling alone, always entertained, soothed or emboldened by wherever the treats are.

Kids get hit the hardest where their days can be ruled by social isolation. Our kids go out with friend’s half as much as we did. Since 2010 the number of youths feeling left out has doubled. Those feeling their lives are not useful have gone up 20%, while those feeling they have no hope for the world has doubled.

Swing sets rust, drive-ins gone, no stickball, no marbles, no cruising, no dolls, no biking, no pogo sticks, no teetertotters, no playing house, or building forts, no learning the twist, no hula hoops, no jacks,  no splitting that piece of bubble gum, no walking to a friend’s house or playing outside unsupervised, no hopscotch, no tether ball, no blood brothers, no skipping rocks, no bow and arrows, no cap-guns and certainly no BB guns.  Just quiet time in the corner, with that machine working out on human brains.

The turning of Americans against what has been America is just a little piss in the pond of what has happened and is to come.

All of what I have said pales in comparison with what is set upon us. Artificial Intelligence will take the ability to categorize and manipulate you and me in ways so profound as to make us, not us anymore. The ability of Artificial Intelligence will increase all that I have pointed out, AND THIS IS NO EXAGERATION, a billion billion times.

Richard Kimball

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DECOMPOSING AMERICA

Nixon’s accepted gift, a dog the family named Checkers.

Thomas Eagleton once suffered from depression.

Donna Rice and Gary Hart on the Monkey Business.

Paula Jones, Monica Lewinsky and Clinton.

Biden blowing a debate.

All ended Presidencies and/or reputations.

But, BUT, this guy

convicted of sexual abuse, threatening former groupies now turned whistleblowers like Bolton, Tillerson, McMaster, Bannon…, his intending to put former President’s or contenders in prison, while whitewashing Epstein and getting and getting preferred treatment for child sex abusers like Ghislaine Maxwell, gets a pass and a growing following.

Americans devolve into the compost. The why, comes with the rest of the story – my next missive!

Richard Kimball

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Back from Alaska

If you’re certain to have little interest in seeing Alaska but enjoy glutinous multitudes fighting for somewhere to sit with a pile on their plates, an Alaskan cruise is for you.

My favorite stop was Hoonah, with a population of 931 or about one third the number that disembarked our ship that day, to see some bear, moose, or maybe a reindeer or whale.

There was no such things, so everyone did what the ship planned for – shopped. The options were mammoth: bear, moose salmon and whale shirts, caps, pants, pajamas with that cute little buttoned back flap, belts, eye wear, undies, and slippers, and, AND if you looked closely made in China.

Most went for some representation of salmon, not in your fresh, local Cosco sense, but dried salmon, flavored salmon, jerked salmon, puréed salmon, salmon spice, even not yet salmon – the eggs, all jarred, canned or sealed.  Given the selection I went for a dozen cans of salmon spread: the pepper garlic, Chipotle and cruise dung flavored, as gifts for friends back home. Those cans seemed the most popular amongst the other cruise ships in port that day and the over 500,000 tourists dropping in to give a financial “high-five” to the 931 inhabitants of Hoonah each year.

One stop was in Juneau, the Alaskan capital. There we were greeted by three blocks of jewelry stores, filled with diamonds and watches, shipped in from Switzerland and Africa, followed by the same mammoth monotony from Chinese fabricators depicting bear, moose, salmon, whales and such!

My life having been spent in various conferences in every state’s capital, each built with pride as monuments to democracy, I decided to visit the only one on the continent that I had not visited.

Finding the address, I looked around, to the right, to the left, down in front, off behind, no, that lump of bricks was actually it, the same old lump you have in your town, in every town.

There was one remote stop, where we sat in the water a few hundred yards from a glacier:  It was a jaw dropper. We hung on the rails as we approached and then glued there for the two-hours our ship stayed, watching a 300+ ft. high glacier calve blocks of ice weighing tons into the ocean.

Me, brother and our loves!

If it were not for that glacier and the chance to spend quality time with my wife, brother and his love, the trip would have been a bust. They made the trip right up until we tried to leave.

All was well as we left the ship for our 2 pm American Airlines flight home. The plane broke before take-off, and a new one was ordered, arriving 6 hours later, that would miss our connection home to Tucson.  The airlines said we had two choices, one, we can get you to Los Angles where you will need to stay two days untill our next Tucson flight or we can get you to Phoenix sometime tomorrow where you will need to use your own resources to find home.

What fun, what experience, what adventure, what learning to just watch Animal Kingdom and be happy.

Richard Kimball

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GET SPANKED!

That first spank that makes you cry and breath sets the tone. Was it the spank or that first breath? Did it fill you with worry or wonder?

If worry, well there are plenty more to come: That mess down there, that chaffing, the sudden hunger that wasn’t there a second ago or just mommy’s not being in front of your face. Later that touch of a hot stove, the bee sting, poke, scrape or cut, particularly if anything comes with BLOOD.

But if it is wonder, then comes the marvels! Oh, those marvels: that first breath of fresh air, the warmth of a cuddle, that sweet suckle on mommy’s breast. As the days rolled on there was seemingly unending awe at what you heard, tasted, touched, smelled or saw for the very first time.

At his end, the Dalai Lama suggests that each year we should visit a place or have an experience for the very first time. Newness refreshes our senses, makes us feel alive.

If you aren’t so close to your end and still have some juice, I say:

JUST DO IT

If you are from the west and traveled at all, you recall first marveling at the monuments in your nation’s Capital, that incredible crush of water that keg riders took over Niagara Falls, or the single year it took to build and let you stand on the Empire State Building, the horrors at Gettysburg, or that historic walk down Boston’s “Freedom Trail,” and maybe just for this westerner, the marvel of being surrounded by what they called in the east lightening bugs.

If you are from the east your travels west had nature taking the front seat and making your jaw drop at how big a hole can be at the Grand Canyon, what trees can really do in a Sequoia, or those hundreds of crystaled streams, teaming with fish, or how enormous mountains and bears can be, or just how large a volcano was that at Yellow Stone.

If you were truly adventurous, you might have even spent some time in that underworld that thrives like a thousand alien species just below the waves.

Or maybe some adventures in sensations: Sky diving, blowing some weed, or just eating a bit of sautéed goose liver is what stimulated your senses. Find something, anything new!

The world has unlimited permutations of what makes us feel alive. Doing something new, something never known, might awaken what has ended in most of us oldies: That shock and awe we had for that first breath.

Richard Kimball

P. S. Spank me, I’m off to Alaska. Talk to you when I get back.

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“Boo Boo” Got Lost

A long-distance runner gave us ten weeks of internship lending a hand with our research in the wilderness. Young and pretty she took off after work each day to put in a half-dozen miles or so.

But on this night, she missed the sunset, supper, the moon and bedtime, and just thus, forty-six young students and staff entered the world of mass hysteria.

It was their tears of fear that I might remember most if it weren’t for the testosterone driven young’uns I heard had just left to search the quarter million acres of wilderness in the dark.

It was all one could do to run them down and threaten them with dismissal if they did not return to the lodge, instantly.

Local search and rescue, some 26 miles away refused to respond until first light, “too dangerous” they said.

There would be no way on a freezing night to hold back a one of us, including me.

Trail maps were printed out, assignments were made with ridged timelines to return and report.  I waited till midnight before making that most miserable of calls back east and woke up her parents.

Teams went out in threes and fours, each person in warm gear, a flashlight, water and most importantly whistles and a blanket should they find her. She jogged wearing only nylon shorts and a flimsy tank top.

The searches went on and on, each team reporting back and reassigned. Nothing. Not a hint, for miles around in any direction.

At first light, the lodge was full of the exhausted, and when I entered there wasn’t a dry eye, many sobbing uncontrollably. Sickened, I asked, “What was it? Did someone find her?”    “No,” “No,” “No,” came the responses. And then one of the sobbing said, “They said it was probably a Mountain Lion!”

Only then did I notice off in the corner that the local volunteers from Search and Rescue had finally shown up.  That is when my emotions overwhelmed my good sense.  I went ballistic and demanded that the locals get out and stop talking to my young staff.

The morning crept on and on, then at exactly 10 am, “Boo Boo” walked in the front door with one of our search teams still looking for her. Before a single word was said, I had to excuse myself.  It was my time to cry.

They had found her walking on one of the back roads. Unknown to city dwellers, there are many roads in the wilderness not excavated by human hands. Turns out that deer, moose, elk don’t just wander aimlessly in the forest, they make roads most traveled, and it is one of those that “Boo Boo” took by mistake but petered out and got lost.

 “Boo Boo” and I first called her parents and then “Boo Boo” and I talked.

“Yes,” she said she was cold, but she remembered her older brother who was a Boy Scout had told her if you are ever lost in such circumstance, find the tallest tree and settle under it, it will cast your odor out the furthest so the dogs can find you, then gather all the leaves and twigs you can and bury yourself in them to stay warm.  When it was first light, she said, she just headed downhill to a creek and followed it till she found a road.

In reverence, I finally asked weren’t you ever scared?  She said that she was, when two bears came around in the middle of the night, but she just said, “BOO BOO” and they went away.

Richard Kimball

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The Sludge Flowed Uphill

Sweet and kind, she sat next to me on the State Senate floor. Her one interest was to end abortions. We agreed on nothing, but I liked her.

She was becoming a rarity in politics, uncomplicated, real and true to what she believed, but about to be screwed by the leadership.

They needed her vote to support a bill, which I supported but that she strongly opposed, again on religious grounds.

On a bathroom break, unknown, only to her, the chair shuffled the agenda to confuse and get her positive vote on what she thought was another bill that she did support.

She walked off the Senate floor in tears.

I instantly felt the remorse, all feel of their silence, when a word of warning was due.

The creeping sludge of most local politics has long made it unlikely that the honorable, dignified people in our communities would enter public service.

That was decades ago, when much of the sludge remained low level, and dignity was still the cream that could manage to elevate to higher office.

Richard Kimball

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